the guru or described as randy for eternity
For most of the first two years that he knew me, my father-in-law pretended not to be able to remember my name. Of course, I was obligated to return the favor and that is how he picked up the nickname, “Randy.”
the photographers or family portraitists portrait
This is a portrait series of my father-in-law and his older brother taking the family portrait at an annual family gathering last year. The portrait always gets taken at the end of the week when everyone is out of clean clothes, tired, and happy. We will go back soon and I am very excited. Everybody in the family grins when these pictures get mentioned and documenting the portrait process has become my assigned role.
It is strange to think that one day I will be one of patriarchs looking at generations I have made. Will I be able to hold everyone together, overcome all of the forces that pull people apart, remember all of the stories? Will I make it that far even?



